# 如何告诉人们他们不想听的东西

你会经常需要告诉人们一些让他们不舒服的事情。记住，你必须为某种原因才这样做。即使没有什么可以用来解决这个问题，你也该尽早告诉他们，这样他们才能充分警觉。

向别人指出一个问题的最好方法是同时提供一个解决方案。其次的方法是呼吁他们寻求帮助。如果你有不被信任的危险，你应该为你的主张寻求支持。

一种你必须说的最不舒服且普遍的事情是“时间不够”。尽责的程序员讨厌这样说，但必须尽早说。没有什么比 deadline 抵达，不得不推迟进度更加糟糕，即使唯一的行动是通知每个人。更好的做法是，作为一个团队整体来做这件事，如果物理上做不到，至少是精神上这样做。你会想要得到你的团队对你的观点以及你为之所做的事情的支持，团队必须与你共同面对这样的后果。

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